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Last updated on Thursday 19th October, 2017

About Jem's Playground - Jem's Playground is a hook up site!

Meet local people when you're at home or travelling for work or on a weekend away with your friends. You know that the other users are also looking for a hook up or casual sex! It's not like searching through all the other apps where most people are looking for a serious relationship. Jem's Playground is for people who want a one night stand, a casual fling, a short term affair, they want to hook up for a casual experience.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is NSA? NSA is No Strings Attached. A fling, an affair, a one night stand, a casual encounter.

What is a hook up site? A hook up site is a dating site or app where the users are looking to meet for something casual or a one night stand.

What is FWB? FWB is Friends With Benefits. These are people looking for casual encounters where they can meet up for sex regularly without committing to a long term relationship.

Have Fun While You Search For The One!

Tips for Hooking Up!

Hooking up is fun but you also need to stay safe!

1. Tell a friend what you're up to! Always let a flat mate or friends know when you're hooking up. Give all the proper information about where you are going, who you're going with (including your date's name and phone number) and when you expect to be home. If anything changes regarding your whereabouts during the course of the evening, let them know right away.

It may sound a little overboard, but if no one knows you're out, they won't know they should be worried if something should go wrong. Remember 127 Hours? It's kinda the same idea. If James Franco's character had just let someone know he was going out hiking, they would have known to look for him a whole lot sooner.

2. Provide your own transportation If you can, provide your own transport when you're meeting up with for the first time.

Uber it or drive your own car and not only will you have a quick getaway if things get weird, but you're also keeping your home address hidden from your date! Just in case you don't want to meet them again. It doesn't always work out every time. You both might want to hook up but there has to be a connection or at least a physical attraction.

3. Meet in a safe environment Netflix and chill is fun and all, but don't ever invite someone you hardly know over to your house, or go over to theirs.

"Meet in a public place at a time with many people around," Kimberly Cheryl suggests in her book Are Your Habits Killing You? "A familiar restaurant or coffee shop, at a time where a lot of other people will be present is a fine choice."

Not only will this decrease your chances of being put in an unsafe situation, but other people may also remember you being in that location, in the event something does happen to you.

Once you're comfortable then you can meet more privately. If you are comfortable to get intimate immediately then choose a hotel so you are in a neutral place for you first hook up or casual encounter.

4. Don't leave your food or drink unattended GHB (gamma hydroxybutyrate) and roofies (Rohypnol) — which you've probably heard of by now — are odorless, colorless date rape drugs that can make you disoriented or unconscious. We don't want to believe that someone we're on a date with will slip us any drugs, but it does happen.

Don't accept a drink from your date unless you open it yourself or watch it being prepared by a bar person.

5. Limit alcohol consumption, period While we're on the topic of booze, it's also not a great idea to drink more than one or two beverages while out with someone you don't know very well. Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes it easier for a potential predator to talk you into leaving a public place.

Sure, dating can be awkward and it's easy to fall back on a little social lubrication to keep conversation flowing easier — but is it really worth it?

6. Don't give out your personal info "Guard your personal contact information on any dating or social networking site," Says Dr. Marla W. Deibler, a psychologist at The Center for Emotional Health of Greater Philadelphia, LLC. "If using an online dating website, you can choose to have the individual respond to the site, rather than your email address, or you can set up an email address specifically for this purpose.'

7. Go on a group date If you can, go out with at least one other friend — that way, you can keep on eye on each other in case someone is slipped a date rape drug or appears to be drinking too much. It's also a great way to get a second opinion if you are getting bad vibes from a date.

8. Carry some protection No, we're not talking condoms here (though having condoms with you is always a good idea). We're talking good ol' fashioned pepper spray! But seriously, make sure if you have sex that you have protected sex when you are hooking up for the first time with someone for a casual encounter.

Better safe than sorry.

9. Don't lie Misrepresenting yourself over email or on a dating site might piss off your date!

Be truthful about what you're looking for and what your situation is. If you are married or in a relationship and looking for an affair then make sure you tell the other person that's what the situation is. If you're just looking for a one time hook up rather than Friends With Benefits for regular meet ups let the other person know.

10. Add them on Facebook, check them on LinkedIn or Google them The best defense is a good offense. If you google your date and find some questionable info or just get a bad feeling, follow your gut and cancel ASAP. Add them on Snapchat or view their Whatsapp profile picture if they give you their mobile number. Add them on Facebook so you can see if you have any friends in common of friends of friends. Ask them for their Instagram handle so you can see their Instagram account. It might only be a one time hook up but you want to be sure that you get the best out of it and that the person you are meeting is who they say they are. All of Jem's Playground members are personally vetted by a UK team who verify user accounts to make sure that we stop scammers and catfish using the site!

So what are you waiting for? Join Jem's Playground today and start meeting sexy, like-minded people straight away.

Company Information

Jem's Playground is run by Venntro Media Group Ltd., a company specialising in the development of online dating websites for the singles community. For all media enquiries, please email press@venntro.com, who will be able to assist. Please note: we cannot offer member support through this email address; please view the Help pages.

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